How Nice Are You Really?

 

 

Hey there guys. How was your day? I hope you all are doing well. Today we will be discussing an important topic How nice are you really? Being nice is one of the last things I would desire. Don’t get me wrong I am not saying that you should be rude but the point is that being nice only doesn’t solves any problem.

This is why I believe women don’t like nice men or only nice men. The problem with these types of men is that they bring nothing on the table except for being nice. Same is for women who only brings beauty to the table. There are other qualities which we should always consider, besides beauty and being nice, for our friends and relationships. The simple reason that beauty and being nice doesn’t help you grow as a person. This is why we see nice men finishing last when it comes to relationships.

There are many such things which you should consider when it comes to relationships. Being nice is a topic of major concern because then only we would be able to know what works and what doesn’t. The problem with nice people is that mostly they don’t put any other thing on the table. If you don’t believe then you could talk to your friends who you consider as nice people. American culture also promote this nice culture. They have this way of beating around the bush. While if you see Finnish culture they are on the opposite end of the spectrum. They are almost always direct with you and sometimes they are so direct that it hurts. Very level-headed and always making sense. This is why I just love Finland. I have not been there but I have talked with people from Finland.

I hope you enjoyed my short article. If you are nice and had any troubles due to it then feel free to mention it in the comments section down below. Play the quiz as well. Don’t forget to share this quiz with your friends and family. Also, don’t forget to comment on your percentage of being nice?

Here are some quotes on nice people:

“Be the girl you want your daughter to be. Be the girl you want your son to date. Be classy, be smart, be real, but most importantly be nice.”
― Germany Kent

“Aunt Fanny tells me you made great friends with Mr. Mottram. I’m sure he can’t be very nice.’
‘I don’t think he is,’ said Julia. ‘I don’t know that I like nice people”
― Evelyn Waugh, Brideshead Revisited

“He trusted that I would have a very pleasant stay: it was so peaceful, and the meals were delicious. As he said it, I realized that he was expressing not just a belief, but a hope, because he was one of those people, and you don’t see them every day, who take an instinctive pleasure in the happiness of their fellow men – that he was, in other words, a nice guy.”
― Michel Houellebecq, Soumission

“As impactful as the sun when it comes as when it leaves.” – On the value of those exceptional people we were privileged to meet and now have to say goodbye to”
― Lamine Pearlheart, Aether

“The one nice thing about me, I have never tried to be nice to anyone”
― P.S. Jagadeesh Kumar

Friendship is two-sided. It isn’t a friend just because someone’s doing something nice for you. That’s a nice person. There’s friendship when you do for each other. It’s like marriage – it’s two-sided.

John Wooden

Being a nice person is about courtesy: you’re friendly, polite, agreeable, and accommodating. When people believe they have to be nice in order to give, they fail to set boundaries, rarely say no, and become pushovers, letting others walk all over them.

Adam Grant

In my twenties I would be skeptical of a bad haircut, but once you turn thirty it’s more about whether he a nice person and does he open the door for me. Once you turn thirty-five, it’s more about would he make a good father. And even if you’re just liking somebody and digging on someone, I think you can’t help but think in those terms.

Rashida Jones


“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    On a scale of 1-10, how social and outgoing are you?

    • 1-5
    • 6-8
    • 9-10
  • Question of

    What’s your ‘Achilles Heel?’

    • Being stubborn
    • Being too trusting
    • Being bossy
    • Being too easygoing
  • Question of

    How often do you volunteer your time or donate money to charities and non-profits?

    • Once a year, around the holidays.
    • I work for a charity/non-profit organization.
    • Hardly ever, but I always tell myself that I should.
    • Almost never – I’m working on myself first.
    • Several times a year.
  • Question of

    What makes you smile the most?

    • Newborn babies
    • Old people in love
    • A raise to reward you for your hard work
    • A traffic-free highway
    • Your favorite chocolate on sale at the supermarket
  • Question of

    Who is your favorite Looney Tunes character?

    • Tweety Bird
    • Sylvester Cat
    • Bugz Bunny
    • Wile E. Coyote
    • Porky Pig
  • Question of

    What’s your ‘go to’ default birthday gift for someone?

    • A handmade scarf
    • A card with a very nice note inside
    • A gift card
    • A funny novelty trinket
  • Question of

    What do you dream about most often?

    • Monsters
    • Flying
    • Family & Friends
    • Ruling the world
  • Question of

    What’s your favorite part about the 4th of July?

    • Quality time with friends & family
    • The fireworks
    • The food
    • The day off
  • Question of

    Which dog breed matches your personality best?

    • Golden Retriever
    • Bulldog
    • Chihuahua
    • Jack Russel Terrier
    • Poodle
  • Question of

    Your friend walks into the room wearing shoes that you’ve been saving a month to purchase. What’s your first reaction?

    • I can’t believe she got MY shoes!
    • I wish I was her.
    • I should go compliment her on her good taste.
    • That’s nice that we have the same sense of style.
  • Question of

    Do you have good manners?

    • Yes, most definitely
    • Most of the time
    • Depends on it’s situation
  • Question of

    If someone cuts in front of you in line, what do you do?

    • Tell them politely that you were there past
    • Let them have your place in line maybe didn’t see you…
    • Make a scene
    • Inform that there is a line and it begins after you
  • Question of

    When you see someone who needs help, what do you do?

    • Pretend you didn’t see them, you’re too busy to help most of the time
    • Smile at them and send them good vibes
    • Offer to help
  • Question of

    Are you friendly?

    • Most of the time
    • Absolutely! You always have a smile on your face
    • Not at first, but once you get to know someone.
    • No, you’re usually reserved around strangers.
  • Question of

    When you were in school, did you ever pick on others?

    • No way. That’s not cool
    • Only in a joking way, never hurtful
    • You’d be lying if you said no

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