What Controls Your Dark Side?



Hey there guys. How was your day? I hope you all are doing well. Today we will be discussing an important topic What controls your dark side? In this beating around the bush culture we don’t seem to acknowledge that all humans have a dark side. We fail to do so because we judge ourselves by parameters set by the society and we can’t see ourselves as the wrong one according to it. The problem is that if we don’t acknowledge it then we are not facing reality.

If we avoid the reality then some day or the other it would bite us. So what this dark side of humans. The idea simply suggests that we aren’t saints and that we could do wrong to others for selfish reasons. See this is very hard because in everybody’s story they are the hero.

You are constantly defying your wrong doings even though you are fully aware that it was wrong. The dark side of humans could be seen when we face some extreme situations. At these times we serve ourselves first and other comes second. It is this selfish nature that leads to chaos and ill in society. If we want to correct it then at least we need to first acknowledge that it exists. Because if we come to this common conclusion then only we will be able to handle it. It could not be eradicated completely and should not be done either.

As our dark side teaches us about reality. Though I could say that there just like there is no absolute black there is not absolute white either. There are very few people who are at the opposite extremes but the majority lies somewhere in between. Statistics teaches us that. The fact is that if you believe that everything is completely white or black then the world had not remained stable.

I hope you liked my short piece. If you have any further insights then feel free to drop it down in the comments section below. There are  also some great TV shows and movies with this same concept. I would suggest you to watch them. Play the quiz and please don’t forget to share it with your friends and family.

Here are some quotes on dark side of people:

“A pessimist sees only the dark side of the clouds and mopes; a philosopher sees both sides and shrugs; an optimist doesn’t see the clouds at all – he’s walking on them.” ~ Leonard Louis Levinson

“Come to the dark side. We have cookies.” ~ Sherrilyn Kenyon

“Confront the dark parts of yourself, and work to banish them with illumination and forgiveness. Your willingness to wrestle with your demons will cause your angels to sing.” ~ August Wilson

“We all have a dark side. Most of us go through life avoiding direct confrontation with that aspect of ourselves, which I call the shadow self. Theres a reason why. It carries a great deal of energy.” ~ Lorraine Toussaint

“We all need to look into the dark side of our nature – that’s where the energy is, the passion. People are afraid of that because it holds pieces of us we’re busy denying.” ~ Sue Grafton

“I’ve grown quite weary of the spunky heroines, brave rape victims, soul-searching fashionistas that stock so many books. I particularly mourn the lack of female villains — good, potent female villains. Not ill-tempered women who scheme about landing good men and better shoes (as if we had nothing more interesting to war over), not chilly WASP mothers (emotionally distant isn’t necessarily evil), not soapy vixens (merely bitchy doesn’t qualify either). I’m talking violent, wicked women. Scary women. Don’t tell me you don’t know some. The point is, women have spent so many years girl-powering ourselves — to the point of almost parodic encouragement — we’ve left no room to acknowledge our dark side. Dark sides are important. They should be nurtured like nasty black orchids.”
― Gillian Flynn


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